A spiritual father is usually a priest, monk, or experienced pastor who provides ongoing guidance in a person's Christian life. The relationship can include Confession, prayer, advice, and help in developing a balanced spiritual rule.
Is a spiritual father supposed to control every decision?
No. Healthy Orthodox spiritual guidance should help a person grow in responsibility, repentance, discernment, and freedom in Christ rather than create unhealthy dependence.
How is this connected with Confession?
Confession can include pastoral counsel, but the Mystery itself is fundamentally repentance and reconciliation with God. See What Is Confession in the Orthodox Church?
Why seek guidance?
Spiritual life can be distorted by pride, fear, or self-deception. Wise pastoral guidance can help a Christian pray, fast, repent, and make decisions with greater balance.
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